One of the qualities that most people admire in others is
the willingness to admit one’s mistakes. It is extremely hard sometimes to say a
simple thing like "I was wrong about that," and it is even harder to say, "I was
wrong, and you were right about that." I had an experience
recently with someone admitting to me that he had made a mistake fifteen years
ago. He told me he had been the manager of a certain grocery store in the
neighborhood where I grew up, and he asked me if I remembered the egg cartons.
Then he related an incident and I began to remember vaguely the incident he was
describing. I was about eight years old at the time, and I had
gone into the store with my mother to do the weekly grocery shopping. On that
particular day, I must have found my way to the dairy food department where the
incident took place. There must have been a special sale on eggs that day
because there was an impressive display of eggs in dozen and half dozen cartons.
The cartons were stacked three or four feet high. I must have stopped in front
of a display to admire the stacks. Just then a woman came by pushing her grocery
cart and knocked off the stacks of cartons. For some reason, I decided it was up
to me to put the display back together, so I went to work. The
manager heard the noise and came rushing over to see what had happened. When he
appeared, I was on my knees inspecting some of the cartons to see if any of the
eggs were broken, but to him it looked as though I were the culprit. He severely
reprimanded me and wanted me to pay for the broken eggs. I protested my
innocence and tried to explain, but it did no good. Even though I quickly forgot
all about the incident, apparently the manager did not. How old was the author when he wrote this article