"You need an apartment alone even if it"s over a garage," declared Helen Gurley Brown in her 1962 bestseller "Sex and the Single Girl". To Brown, solo living afforded the
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to cultivate the self, furnish the mind and work late, and so on. Young women
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enjoy their best years without a(n)
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, she advised, as this not only
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the foundation for stronger marriages
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gave them a lifestyle to fall back on
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they found themselves alone again.
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at the time, Brown"s counsel seems sensible now. Certainly both
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have taken it to heart, marrying later, divorcing
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and living alone in larger numbers than ever before.
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little is known about the wider social
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of this unprecedented boom, writes Eric Klinenberg, a sociologist at New York University. His new book "Going Solo" offers a
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look at the lures and perils of living alone.
Mr. Klinenberg
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those who see the rise of solo living as yet another
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of the decline of civic society.
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marriage is no longer the ticket to adulthood, a desire to live alone is perfectly
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, he writes. Young adults view it as a rite of passage, a period of personal growth before possibly
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, Its cultural acceptance has helped to
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women from bad marriages and oppressive families,
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them a space to return to civic life. And as elderly adults live longer than ever before, often without a partner, many hope to stay
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for as long as possible.